Is he bu and self centred or am I?

[chargedup77]

Aibu to think this is ridiculous or aibu?
"D" p is going away on a stag do Thursday - Saturday and possible till Sunday but won't know till they get there, anyhow he went to play a game of football with friends yesterday evening ( didn't see dd awake at all yday ) and he's going again tonight, he's got the day off tomorrow so we will see him tomorrow day/ night basically I'm getting at Is am I over reacting for being pissed off or is he selfish for going to play both nights when he's away 4 days?

Good dads don't abuse their child's mother and force their child to live in an abusive environment. It will damage your child.

Pretty sure I recognise you from previous posts about this.

If you just want to come on here and vent each time his abuse overwhelms you, you're free to do that. But longer term venting here or trying to beg him won't change him and it won't make life any better for you.

Www.freedomprogramme.co.uk - they can teach you what a healthy relationship would look like. It wouldn't involve being financially abused.

Just because he threatens you when you try to leave, doesn't mean you don't have the right to leave and live a life free from abuse. There are people who would help you if you let them.

@chargedup77
wishing you the strength to leave this abusive situation💐