Since having DC, my husband and I have only holidayed with PIL. Money is tighter than before (although far from ‘tight’ - I’m not crying poverty) so PIL always pay for the accommodation and travel (ferry) but we stay in the U.K. so petrol etc is out cost. We share all the food shopping and treat them several times too.
However, in 2 years my youngest will be getting 30 free hours and we’ll be able to afford a sunny holiday abroad.
I saw a holiday for about £3k which looked lovely. That would take 5/6 months of saving. Does that seem mad?