Finding out the baby's sex

[skinnyduplotowers]

Would like to know WIBU. I am currently pregnant with second child. For first we did not find out sex until the birth. One of us didn't enjoy that and wants to find out during the pregnancy. The other thinks that is unacceptably playing favourites and treating them unequally. Who is right?

I don’t understand. Which one would be the favourite if you found out? 🤷🏻‍♀️

He's being ridiculous. I'd tell him I'm going to find out and he can go outside if he doesn't want to know.

@WhatIfIHadnt why is the person who wants to find out right? I think it's much nicer to wait and find out when the baby is born and right there in the room with you.
I'd never ever find out, I'd never want to either. My husband did, I point blank refused and told him I knew he would regret it, and that when the baby was born he would be glad we waited. And I was right. (If he had insisted I'd have asked them to write it down or tell him without me there, so I wouldn't find out at all).
Op, it's not about favourites. It's something that needs to be decided before the scan ideally.