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To think DP was DISGUSTING to do this

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Spiceupyourlife · 05/06/2019 13:39

So settle a difference of opinion for me.
I think DP is disgusting... he thinks I’m over reacting as about to get married and very stressed.

Today DP was was off work and I was WFH. Asked him to have a tidy as cleaners were coming. He did... but not well... or happily 🙄

So he goes out to run errands and I hear the cleaners arrive. Run into bathroom to check it’s not awful. There’s a sodden toilet roll holder on the floor of the bath and a pair of pants on the floor (DP’s) grab them both and dispose of - carry on WFH

30 mins pass and suddenly I realise ... 🤔 why was it wet? I’d taken a bath and DP had taken a shower (which we keep the empty toilet rolls next to) so assumed it had been that.

Nope, DP just told me that the cat had knocked it into the toilet - instead of taking it to the bin DP had thrown the sodden remains on the floor of the bath- for the cleaners to deal with!

He now claims he didn’t intend he cleaners to deal with it- he threw it in the bath ‘to dry’ 🤔😡

I think it’s lazy and disgusting to not throw something covered in toilet water directly in the bin! It didn’t even cross my mind he would leave it in the bath!

So I spent about 30 minutes sat with toilet water on my hands without realising! I touched my mouth several times and now very worried I’ll get sick!!!

I am a huge germaphobe with OCD! DP knows this!!

OP posts:
LimitIsUp · 05/06/2019 15:21

I think it shows a horrible, disrespectful attitude to the cleaners. Astonished by your comment Ravingstarfish
There is plenty of cleaning to be done in most households that doesn't involve dealing with items sopping wet from the toilet

MarthasGinYard · 05/06/2019 15:30

'DP seems to think the cleaners pick up all of his shit! '

How disrespectful

Nanny0gg · 05/06/2019 15:49

You're marrying him, why?

EvaHarknessRose · 05/06/2019 17:43

Find time to read wifework before you get married if you can!

Idontwanttotalk · 05/06/2019 17:50

Do you really want to marry someone who thinks it's okay to just leave their dirty pants on the bathroom floor? I think that's pretty rubbish behaviour.

I'm with you, OP, he needs house training.

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