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Can my uni throw me out immediately? Really upset pls help

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incrediblydistraught · 04/06/2019 11:31

Late paying last installment for my masters degree, having some financial difficulty. I went in and spoke to them and asked if would be ok to finish paying by August followed up with call last week.

They have suspended me now and can't access any of my student accounts. I have called and am really distraught I can't fucking cope I have just spent £8000 and a whole year trying to make myself more employable AND THE WHOLE THING IS A FUCKING WASTE.

Nobody could say if they will let me finish. I don't know what to do I feel so misled as far as I knew it was ok to finsih paying by August and then suspending my email how the fuck can I communicate with anyone at the uni to even try t o resolve it????????

Shaking with fear no matter what I do how hard I try it all gets taken away from me I am a laughing stock. I have paid £8000 all for nothing, my grades are all good and its all for nothing.

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MyBlueMoonbeam · 05/06/2019 23:27

they do have a point though. People won't say it in real life, but they sure think it!

@MorondelaFrontera

There could be many reasons why this situation has caused anxiety.

My son (currently an undergraduate at University) is highly intelligent (assessed as gifted) but struggles in day to day life with organisational issues due to his dyspraxia, dyslexia and high functioning autism.

He has overcome so many obstacles to get this far.

People should think before they post ignorant comments.

DianaT1969 · 06/06/2019 00:03

OP, glad you sorted it. Can I suggest for the future that whenever you speak to people in business, or in these sort of circumstances, that you say "So that I know with whom I have been talking, what is your name and job title?" Make a note and follow up with emails to them to confirm actions . You will feel more empowered if you take control of communucations.
Your opening posts were of vague, unknown people and you weren't sure of their roles. Be lazer sharp on who you need to speak to and who decision makers are.

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