Why would a woman put up with this?

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A man who is capable of working but hasn't for 4 years meaning every penny spent is yours?

Lives in your house but due to a court order means that you have to leave it if his kids come over?

Has got off with women in front of you?

Sexts other women?

I am jsut so curious as to why a woman would bother with a man like this?

I cant imagine it would be in court papers though, if it was just ops preference, would it?

No judge would allow this, surely unless she could give good reason for it.

I'm guessing op isn't going to share info on why the partner isn't allowed to be present, not how she knows these details, which makes it impossible to comment anything worthwhile.
I'm guessing that three reason for the post is that exdp isn't paying for the DC (not working) and she's pissed off that the reason he's able to do that is because he's being 'kept' by his new partner so she'd prefer it all round if they split. Am I warm op?

I get that point if view from the OP.

However, she isnt asking how can a woman finance a man and respect him and want to be with him when he wont even pay for his own kids.

She seems more bothered about why she puts up with the sexting etc.

Personally if I was a millionaire I woildnt want do to work either. But if he had young kids, I would want to make sure they were being supported. Theres obviously more to this.

Odd that the OP posted two days ago that her children didn't see their Dad.