My friend invited me around to hers for dinner tonight as I was at a work conference close to her town. She told me she would make us dinner and watch films etc. We don't have children and she doesn't have a partner, we are early 20s. I was exhausted getting there with 2 trains cancelled and a 30 minute walk from the station. But we do this quite often so I thought it would be nice to chill out with her catch up etc. Around 6 I text her saying I was on my way, she said great teas ready at 7. When I get to the house she says "hope you don't mind my two friends are coming as well", nope not at all. She's acting really off and it turns out she's drunk. Not a prbblem to me, she's a grown up and she's finished work for the weekend. Dinner was fine. Afterwards she brings 3 bottles of wine in and beer, everyone starts drinking. I have a beer but don't really drink. Then she is showing her two friends how far she has "progressed" on the guitar by plugging into an amp. She laughs that she had recieved a noise compliant yesterday from her neighbours (who have a newborn).she then decides we are all going the pub. I begrudgingly go, but I am still in my work clothes from 7am and I haven't showered etc. I say after 1 hour at 12 midnight that In really tired and need to go to sleep. She asks if I'm okay walking home in my own (in an area I am both unfamiliar with, and about a 45 minute walk). Eventually she says we will all go back. They're screaming and laughing and playing music so the walls are vibrating. I ask her to stop, and she says "fuck you" in front of her friends who all laugh. I go upstairs to try and sleep, but at 4am I just gave up and walked out the house to wait for the first train back to my town. I'm sitting at the train stop now with a 45 minute wait... And a three hour train home She just text me like let me know when you get home.
Aibu to be so annoyed that she didn't tell me what night it would be and that it would deviate so much from what we usually do. She knows I have been struggling with depression at the minute and self harm quite badly, and aibu to have walked out? It was like trying to sleep at a teenage house party..
I would never do this to my friends