*maybe tmi* massive anxiety before giving oral for the first time!

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I'm getting so worked up and panicked about this, posting for traffic really!
I'm completely inexperienced with it (and don't want him to know that). It's been a few months as well so has been quite built up to.
I'm really worried about seeming really inexperienced and just generally being crap (and mainly scraping teeth!!!?)

Will this come naturally? I can't stop the panic of this!

(Name changed of course but regular user!!)

I think it would be better to tell him you haven’t done it. He will feel honoured :o

Lots and lots of spit in your hand. Use a hand and just the tip in your mouth for tongue flicks. That way you won't gag.

I'm completely inexperienced...

I'm really worried about seeming really inexperienced

Why? You are inexperienced at this! Why would you ever pretend otherwise to someone you obviously have more than a lukewarm relationship with, seeing as you are planning to suck him off?

OP there us no wrong way to do it If he gets fussy and had a moan about what your doing, it says more about him than you.

Also if you've given it some thought beforehand he'll be in cock suck heaven if you try out every way you've thought of. He'll think he's blessed for that.

Umm, well as one equiped with a dongle. Just suck it and see try not to bite.
Use you mouth in much the same way as a vagina and run it up and down his shaft.

You can do what is called tea bagging thats taking his nuts in your mouth which is, well nice:) You might if you go too deep set of a gag reflex 'tho some women can cope with that. Use your tounge to tease him as well and thats more or less it.

If he pops inside your mouth then you can either spit it out or just swallow it and do it fast theres less "taste" there then. Tho some like snowballing thats where you with the mouthfull keep it then start to kiss him and pass it back and forth with him which is nice also. Sometimes it can taste of whatever he's bene eating Asparagus can give a very uck taste.

But Two things;

Its very good of you to ask for guidance:)

and

He's a bloody lucky bugger getting a decent blow:-)

It also depends on his preference. For example does he prefer broad strokes with the mouth or little licks with the tongue?
My husband goes wild when I hum whilst doing it - apparently the vibrations are amazing.

I'd suggest bring honest with him and saying that you haven't done it before. If you know him well enough to give him oral, surely you know him well enough to talk to him openly.

A little tip for your gag reflex, if you tuck your thumb into your clenched fist, you shouldn't gag and be able to go deeper. Works for me anyway 😀

Just go for it, he will be delighted no matter what.
Make sure you are doing this because you definitely want to, not feeling pressure to.

Just suck your lips in over your teeth. It's not rocket science.
Practise on a banana. If there are teeth marks you are doing it wrong.

I'm in my 60s, was married over 30 years, never gave him a blow job. I was like a different person with my new partner. He knew it was new to me, knew I had bothered to learn what to do for him, and was really appreciative. We've split up now, and it's one of the things I miss the most. Just experiment and have fun!

Some men like the feeling of teeth around the rim.

Men really don’t care as long as you’re enthusiastic. Just get down there and lick around the head and suck with your lips so you avoid the tip (i found the taste unbearable at first!)

@AsleepAllDay that's a hand job though  bj doesn't need those instructions for hands 🙈 oh but don't disregard the role hands play in a Bj. (Not Bjork as my iPad just corrected it to) I'm not saying who, but I know someone who didn't know you used your hands too. It went on far too long and they may have had very sore jaws for a few days.

A bjork job

OP "never gave a blowjob before"

PP " let me tell you about teabagging and snowballing"

Look OP just be honest,take it slow,experiment and do whatever feels comfortable. There's a long list of things that you could do and how to do them. There's no list of things you should or MUST do. Whatever works.

Have you teeth out, op. Sorted.

Definitely don't try teabagging or snowballing

Christ I did not need to know snowballing existed.
Don't do it if you don't want to, your both supposed to enjoy sexual intimacy, if you force yourself it won't be very enjoyable.

It doesn't matter that you are inexperienced. Men like the feeling of their penis in a warm wet mouth or being licked. So it will feel good anyway as long as you don't hurt him. See what you like to do with it.

Better to tell him. If you can’t be honest with your sexual partner, you’re not mature enough to be having sex!

Just day you’ve actually never given anyone oral before, you really want to with him, can we go slow and let him guide you how he likes it.

Watch some non open videos.

If anything embarrassing happens just laugh it off.

I know you don't want to, but if you admit you are a bit inexperienced and ask him what he wants you to do I'm sure he'll love to get exactly what he wants!

Snowballing? Wow. No thanks!

I hope he's willing to return the favour op!

I do hope OP is not done dirty old man getting off on these replies....