Ok so I’ll try and keep this as brief as possible. My cousin was living with her bf but they split up about 6 weeks ago. She was meant to be staying with our nan but one reason and another she couldn’t. I said she could stay here for a couple of weeks as dh is working away and will be until June. Now,she’s been here for the 6 weeks she’s been back over here and I’m getting truly fed up. I have a ds who is 3 years old and I also suffer with anxiety. She’s literally helped around the house about 4 times since she’s been here,dishes done twice by her and hoovered up twice. I’ve just realised that I forgot to mention that she has a dog who is 18 years old and is doing horrible diarrhoea type shits in my garden!! Anyway she hadn’t paid a penny to me for staying here or bought any shopping at all up until yesterday when she gave me £100. She got a flat about 4 weeks ago that needs doing up as it’s literally an empty shell, she’s not even attempted to try and get started on doing any decorating in the last 4 weeks since she got it. The thing that’s winding me up the most is that she’s having phone call conversations a few times a week at 11-12-1am when I’m trying to sleep. I also have chronic kidney disease and my function is down to 17% so I always feel exhausted and especially looking after a 3 year old alone when dh is away. Her being on the phone til all hours keeping me awake is making things worse. I can feel myself getting really angry lately,my anxiety is getting worse because of what’s going on,I’m short tempered and snappy and I just wake up some days feeling so low with her being here now. My home does not feel like mine and ds anymore. I feel like I’m going to have some sort of mental breakdown or end up being really ill with my health problems if she stays for much longer. So wibu to just tell her to leave tomorrow?