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Wedding gift

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Booboooo · 18/05/2019 16:17

Hi. Attending a wedding in july. Im bridesmaid but its very low key so not many duties or formalities. Staying the night in the hotel which has cost us £150. Also need a outfit for hubby and Ds age 4. Cash bar at reception for relevance. So just had a conversation with DH regarding present. They have asked for honeymoon spending money. What would be a appropriate figure? I was always lead to belive you cover the cost of.your food. Im unsure as hvebt been to a all day do in years!!!

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IvanaPee · 19/05/2019 18:07

Give whatever you want but some of your reasoning is a bit silly.

It’s not her fault you want to buy new clothes for your dh and son!

TriciaH87 · 19/05/2019 19:41

I would personally say 50 between you. Your forking out expenses too. Unless the bride has paid for hair make up shoes dresses etc then I might up it but if you have paid for these I would say 50 is fine.

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