I just gave birth a month ago and had anterible labor and the recovery process for me has been hell:.
Anyway I’ve just been a mess and don’t even have the energy to have ppl over.
My bf asked if I was doing anything w my mom for mother’s Day & I said no bc she wanted the day off to sleep and she lives an hour away. He said he wants to get lunch with his mom
(She also lives far like 45 min ) and I said okay whatever . Then yesterday he said maybe his mom and sister can come over & we can have takeout . His mom hasn’t visited the baby once
Since the hospital bc she said she was sick. She also was rlly rude to me in the hospital after I had a horrible labor and almost lost
My baby. had tons of
Complications I have ptsd from the experience.
She barely acknowledged me and said my bf must be so tired, asked why he hadn’t held her yet when she came In the room
Immediately after the birth when they just put the baby on me and hasn’t even done apgar scores. She Brought Clothes that say “I love daddy “ on them, took my baby and took family pics with her while I sat on the bed discluded. No one asked to take pics of me, or of me and my baby, or with me. It was extremely upsetting and ducked up tbh. Literally took my baby for family pics without her mom who just gave birth to her. Then didn’t say bye to me.
No I don’t want her coming the first time since the hospital and the day she wants to
Come Is my first Mother’s Day? like she wants my boyfriend to
Take her out to brunch then come over and play with my baby.I jusf flipped and said it’s not grandmas day she’s not coming over to play with the baby on my first Mother’s Day and making it about her. Ans he said okay fine I’ll jusr take her to lunch and she can come in after for five minutes. I said no becaus at this point I was just angry . And tbh I don’t see why on my first Mother’s Day he even has to take his mom out. I know that sounds selfish but I’m a new mom and he can’t celebrafe with her another day,l.. like he has to take her out and give her time with the baby on my baby and mom
Day when she hasn’t vistited all month.
I told my bf I don’t lnkw why she even expects you to take her out on my first Mother’s day and he ruined the day for me.he woke up at 1 pm and I’ve been
Doing everything as usual, then I asked when’s ur mom
Coming and he said I told her not
To
Come. It’s 3pm now and he hasn’t even said anything to me like happy
Mother’s Day. I said you Ruined my day so you might
As well gonspend it with ur mom
Am I overreacting. I’m just disappointed & it aucjs this is my family..