Hi all,
Am fully aware I may be completely U here, so please bear with and be a little gentle with me!
Am getting married in a month and my chief BM has had her dress for a few months now. We took quite some time finding a dress she liked and would work with her body type - curvy and heavy on top - I wanted her to feel comfortable and not forced into the typical BM dress. She's always said the role of a BM is to make the bride shine and make the day go easier, which is so lovely to hear considering everyone else's constant opinions on the wedding! Now the problem is, it was very tight when she first tried it on but has lost weight by going to the gym with her husband alot (not necessarily for the wedding alone, more of a lifestyle choice I believe as they're trying for a baby.)
Recently saw a new photo of it and whilst she looks amazing, I can't help but panic: it is the most sexy, slinky thing you've ever seen and not at all appropriate for the wedding now. It's supposed to be a drop down dress, loose and flowy. Instead you can see every inch of her body as if it were painted on and even the outline of her bellybutton hole.
Here's the AIBU - do I speak to her and explain how it makes me feel? (Like I won't be looked at at all on the day, all eyes will be on her and her alone - mine too!) Or do I just suck it up and try not to look at her on the day much? I've bought the dresses for all the BMs and have offered to get the next size up (the size it really should be) but she's adamant it fits perfectly.
I know it's mostly my insecurities shining through here, but can't stop thinking about it. 