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AIBU?

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Is my DH demented?

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duggeehug85 · 10/05/2019 20:51

My DH calls bedding bedclothes. AIBU to think that he needs professional help?

OP posts:
MyBlueMoonbeam · 11/05/2019 13:04

@StCharlotte 😁

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 11/05/2019 13:05

My old boss used to call his mobile phone his smartphone. Like 'oh has anyone seen my smartphone?', it made me cringe every time!

It does sound very pretentious indeed. Like when people refer to an ‘iPhone’ (whether in general – “you could just record it on an iPhone” - or their own personal one), when you could do that with pretty much any modern phone. Same goes for people who refer to their ‘Range Rover’ (or whatever), rather than just ‘car’ (unless, maybe, they have several vehicles and genuinely need to specify which one they’ll need to use). Nobody would ever go to 'the Zanussi fridge' to get some milk. It’s all very Alan Partridge.

Not exactly the same thing, but it always grates on me when people say ‘England’ when they so clearly mean ‘the UK’. “Until you see the living conditions in many parts of the world, we don’t realise just how fortunate we are in England”. Right, because, as soon as you cross the border and reach Monmouth or Jedburgh, it’s guaranteed famine, drought, civil war, howling in the streets, long-drop mud latrines and a life-expectancy of 28….

All this has brought it back to me that we had a chest in my parent's house called the bedding box.

Do you mean the ottoman, perchance?!

DH says “ I need some new clothing “ instead of clothes. Drives me mad.
You are both being U, just say raiment or garb like normal people.

Only vulgar sorts would ever deign to refer to individual apparel in such a common manner!

My Nan used to refer to her fancy outfits as 'costumes'. As a child I was always disappointed that she never arrived dressed as Yogi Bear or something.

Does anybody else remember the episode of Call The Midwife when the younger ones, covered from head to toe for their fitness classes, were accused of ‘cavorting in their combinations’ ?! Every time the GTech cleaner advert comes on and the bloke describes it as two machines ‘in one powerful combination’, I always instantly imagine him dressed up as a vacuuming superhero version of Mr Motivator!

I think a lot of it is generational. My dad can’t seem to say he will ‘phone’ or ‘call’ me- it has to be telephone. He also calls chocolate etc ‘confectionary’ which irrationally annoys me.

Does he go really old-fashioned and talk about ‘telephoning to somebody’, like they did in Enid Blyton? Confectionery is far too informally colloquial for me – has to be comestibles!

If there are no interesting popular beat-combos performing at the hop in my local palais (so much ghastly rubbish in the hit parade these days), I simply purchase some petroleum and drive in my motor car to the local picture house to dig the latest flick. Nobody ever thinks me strange for doing this – must be a perquisite of senescence!

Cracking thread, Gromit OP!!

Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

MyBlueMoonbeam · 11/05/2019 13:11

@LadyRannaldini

Looks like someone got out of the bedclothes on the wrong side this morning 🙄
This is a light hearted thread - jeez 🥴

OldAndWornOut · 11/05/2019 13:14

I only stopped saying "disco" a few years ago.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 11/05/2019 13:32

I only stopped saying "disco" a few years ago.

At least you'd stopped adding 'theque' on the end - that still counts as progress of some sort Grin

OldAndWornOut · 11/05/2019 13:34

Hey! I'm no square. Grin

MaMisled · 11/05/2019 13:35

I say bedclothes too! Didn't know I did until this thread, but I actually do!

MyBlueMoonbeam · 11/05/2019 13:43

Oh no I still say disco 🙈 what should I be saying instead? 👵

MyBlueMoonbeam · 11/05/2019 13:44

Not that the opportunity arises very often 🤣

SrSteveOskowski · 11/05/2019 14:07

Bedclothes hear. I'm Irish. We keep them in the hot press Grin

I grew up hearing swimming togs, but I really hate that. I'd say swimsuit now.

Dressing gown, but I had an ex who used to call it a 'morning gown' Confused

MIL insists on referring to jeans as 'denims', eg: a pair of denims. Drives me bloody crazy Angry I've never heard ANYONE else call them that.

SrSteveOskowski · 11/05/2019 15:01

Hear? Here, even!

Pigletthedog · 11/05/2019 15:48

@BaaBaaBaaMoo does he say 'wasp' with a hard A, as you would say it if you said bag, rather than 'wosp'?

A good few years ago my sister and I had to take my dog to the emergency vet as it's face had swollen. After examining the dog, the vet said he thought she had been stung by a wAsp (pronounced as above). I met my sister's eyes over the vets head and how we managed to keep straight faces I'll never know. We now always pronounce it wAsp Grin

Mummyshark2019 · 11/05/2019 15:51

Bed clothes is perfectly normal OP

Littlechocola · 11/05/2019 16:14

My children use different words depending on which parent they talk to.

They ask me what we are having for lunch and dh what we are having for dinner (same meal at LUNCH time).
They say packed lunch to me and crib to Dh.

Obviously they can use whatever word they like and neither of us would ‘correct’ them.

cakesandphotos · 11/05/2019 16:16

We call it bedding. Also swimming costume/cozzie. And what's wrong with underpants??

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 11/05/2019 16:46

And what's wrong with underpants??

I suppose it's the unnecessary use of 'under'. If you're American, you probably call trousers 'pants', so 'underpants' are your (sort of little) trousers that go under your actual outer trousers, hence underpants makes perfect sense.

As we in the UK usually call trousers 'trousers', there's no need to distinguish the garment that goes underneath your trousers. If anything, we should be calling pants 'undertrousers'; but we don't, because we already have a universally-used word for them: 'pants'.

Stravapalava · 11/05/2019 16:49

My DH calls the bedsheets "the linen" as in "bed linen" like an old lady!!

littlepeas · 11/05/2019 17:17

This has reminded me that my parents always said continental quilt when I was a kid! That and ‘suite’ for the sofa (three piece suite, I think?).

ElevenOhFive · 11/05/2019 18:09

@littlepeas are you in NI by any chance?

labazsisgoingmad · 11/05/2019 19:12

swimming costume is cossie
bed linen is bed clothes
an ex used to drive me potty by calling pillows cushions. got fed up telling him cushions are for the settee and pillows are for beds

isabellerossignol · 11/05/2019 19:17

Littlepeas my parents also referred to the suite. And the continental quilt.

And yes Eleven Oh Five that was in N Ireland Grin

SplendidDaysInTheGarden · 11/05/2019 20:03

Just realised that I still say "tape" instead of record, as in, "can you tape Line Of Duty for me, please?" Been laughed at a few times for that! Grin

Miljah · 11/05/2019 20:08

Loving this thread!

'Hot press' - who knew?!

featherflight · 11/05/2019 20:17

bed linen me too!

Likethebattle · 11/05/2019 20:42

Bed clothes is correct, swimming costume is correct and where ‘cozzie’ came from and underpant is right as that’s where ‘undies’ stemmed from.

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