I don’t want to share this society where there’s a complete lack of understanding or forgiveness. I totally reject it. So many of you are wrong. You just are. We can’t carry on like this
Neither do many people of colour want to live in a world we're they are left feeling responsible to keep turning the other cheek, keep being understanding.
You have no idea, none whats-so-ever. After a while you start to doing a sort automatic assessment, 'did he/she really mean to say xyz? Perhaps he/she/they didn't realise,.....maybe there was some mitigating factor, he/she is from 'that time' so can't be expected to change, surely this very educated doctor/professor/laywer can't purposely be so ignorant...I'll just look over it and keep smiling.
Live with it long enough then it becomes a 2nd guessing game 'Perhaps it's me, perhaps I'm reading too much into it, its probably not because I'm the only person with dark skin in the room, I'm being too sensitive, he/she is smiling with me now, how could I have thought so badly of him/her, how horrible of me'
Turn on the news....A shooter just opened fire in a black church...you see the family saying its in the Lords hands, we must be forgiving we must stop the circle continuing...."
You know, after a while it takes it toll. Rather than asking where the forgiveness is, ask why can't people with more melanin be treated with equal respect. We're not a sub species, we're human.
Why aren't you asking why DB finds it just soo hard to make an unreserved apology and facilitate this 'forgiveness'?