HazelNutinEveryBite Tue 07-May-19 01:10:31
My neighbour's trees are as tall as our house now and are damaging my fascias and guttering of the single storey extension. I have borne it since 1995. A few years ago I spoke to the Council about it and they said I would have to pay them £500 and keep a log of everything that happened with the neighbour, how many times I asked him to cut them and what he said. I cannot do that. Since the week he moved in he has made life a misery. I have not spoken to him since that first week.
Then the woman on the phone from the Council told me that even if I do this and the Council got the Court to make him cut them to the legal limit, THEY COULD NOT ENFORCE IT, so I saw little point in doing all that.
The only success I ever had with the police was that when he fixed trellis to the whole extension wall of almost 40ft and planted climbing plants on it they told him to remove it. I have to say that the extension was built for disability purposes and was between 15" and three foot inside our boundary and he refused to give us access to put back the fence.
Before my husband died this man was approaching me every time i went into the garden, which is mostly in the front and open plan. My house is set right back from the road and the front is almost level with his back. It is open plan and without fencing I cannot keep him out. There are no houses opposite mine, just the school field. I was told he wanted this house. My husband was a lot older than me and I am disabled, and he thought it would not be long before we turned our toes up and he would have this place at a price set by him. that was almost 25 years ago. Then when the stalking law came in he started damaging the property instead In 2017 he came into the garden and hacked the branches of my 30 year old rambler from the trunk when it was all in bud.
I think he has friends in high places. Last year when the vandalism took place the police told me that I have to prove it was him, even though he is the only one who has access to that area in the back garden. THEN the policeman told me that I should be more friendly to him and then perhaps these things would not happen. Just how friendly should a widow be with the married man next door?