Why should we? Perhaps your husband needs a different job? People get 'peeled off the road' when they're run over. What of them? Must they think about your husband and his 'crew' too?
Because we are thinking human beings and because dealing with the aftermath of a fatal accident (howsoever caused) is traumatic for whoever has to deal with it, even if the pp's husband takes your suggestion and finds another job, someone unfortunately has to clean up the aftermath of the fatal accident and unless they're re a psychopath they will be negatively effected by the experience.
I can't believe anybody would make such a vacuous statement. What about suicides? Should those tormented people have to take other people's views and sensibilities into account also?
We are not talking about suicides, we are talking about someone who made a bad decision not to wear a seatbelt and they paid a terrible price for their stupid decision or forgetfulness. A decision that has reverberations that effect a wide range of people from those who witnessed the accident to those who have to attend the scene in a professional capacity as well as family and friends.
Even in the case of a suicide, say be juming in front of a train, it is possible to feel sorry for the person who took their own life and for what the train driver who hit them (some of whom have complete breakdowns after having 'one under' and never return to work) and those who have to deal with the gruesome aftermath.
These things aren't incompatible and sympathy for one party doesn't imply lack of sympathy for the other.
I used to really love posting here. I don't much now.
Wekl if you feel that strongly don't or maybe try engaging in a way that doesn't display such aggression and lack of empathy for others and you might get more productive responses.