To take it to the charity shop...

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My DN is having a baby girl & I'm having a boy I saved stuff from my DD that I no longer need. Even though me and my sister don't speak at all I offered to drop the stuff of for her to give to her son for his baby, my DH text her DH and the reply was "drop it of at SIL house, sorry I tried"

So she is that pathetic she won't even allow my DH to knock on the door and drop a huge bag of free baby stuff of for her soon to be granddaughter

AIBU to just take it to the charity shop or should I be the adult and go out of my way to drop it at SIL's house?

if his family don't want anything from you then it would be quite disrespectful for the girlfriend to accept the clothes

This is very true.

Why involve your mum though can you not meet up with mum to be and give the stuff to her so nobody else is involved not your Sister or your mum this trying to be the better person is just going to rile your Sister and probably give your mum grief and put mum to be in a weird position with her partner who doesn't speak to you.

It is your Sil sorry

@StrippingTheVelvet I don't get why its a 'fuck you' to my sister? My sister knows i still love her she will always be my sister. Its such a shame you have people in your life that are that ridiculously petty they would do something such as this to say fuck you? Very very strange.

@Mrsjayy its a long drive to drop the stuff of to the mum to be, iv taken it to SIL like my sister asked...

It's pushy, inappropriate and overstepping all sorts of boundaries. How you can't see that is very, very strange -bollocks-.