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To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?

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birdonawire1 · 28/04/2019 08:49

You know the one. Man bends his bride over backwards and fake kisses her.
Cheesy, cheap and cringe making.

Or is it just me?

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MadisonAvenue · 28/04/2019 11:31

I know the pose that you mean OP, and the running leap as previously mentioned.

Let's not forget the pre-wedding arty shot of the dress on a hanger in the hotel room window.

FunkyKingston · 28/04/2019 11:33

Engagement or pre wedding photos, amuse me greatly the couple walking arm in arm or on a beach or walking through a forrest, hiding behind trees etc. It looks like a Hello! Photospread done on a budget of 10p. When i got married (we didn't gave a wedding photographer at all). A few couples we knew had a whole heap of these cheesy pictures. I waa tempted to have a suite of those cheesy engagement pictures in unlikely or inapropriate locations, such as standing arm outside a clap clinic with our fingers crossed or in a bookies gazing into each other's eyes whilst the 4:30 from Chepstoe was on in the background and a warm glow from the fruit machine lit our faces.

Alsohuman · 28/04/2019 11:35

And the ones of the bride’s shoes. Why? The worst of all, the groom and all his friends holding the bride horizontally, so very normal and natural.

BoswellsBollocks · 28/04/2019 11:42

We got married 17 years ago and luckily the only cheesy one is one of us facing the best man and bridesmaid (our best friends who at the time were a couple)

It was taken from slightly above us and we’re surround by trees and bushes. It looks like we’ve bumped in to each other dogging. Grin

ShirleyPhallus · 28/04/2019 11:42

Ahhh I quite like the leaning-back-kiss-photo, especially if it’s done with a beautiful back drop where the wind has caught the veil

Most people will never feel as beautiful and special as they do on their wedding day, so why not let them feel and act like models for that day?

FunkyKingston · 28/04/2019 11:57

Most people will never feel as beautiful and special as they do on their wedding day

And that's a tragedy in itself.

MsFanackerPants · 28/04/2019 11:58

From my friends weddings over thr last few years I feel like ai could play picture bingo

Dress on a hanger
Make up artist doing lips
Shoes on surface
Dress being fastened at back
Bride and bridesmaids clinking champagne flutes
grooms cufflinks (bonus point if they are being fastened in pic)
Head in hands laughing during speeches.
Picture of seating plan.
Bride twirling or being lifted to make dress poof out.

When you get 600 pics of your wedding so you ever really look at them. Same with wedding videos. How often do you watch it?

I have a friend who is a photographer and did some pics at our wedding. No posing, no groups, nothing that wasn't already happening anyway. My favourite picture is me my husband and our daughter all flopped on a sofa having a cuddle at the end of the evening.

DontCallMeShitley · 28/04/2019 11:59

Ahem...

To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?
SachaStark · 28/04/2019 12:06

Ahhhhh, we didn’t have a wedding photographer, but do have over 1000 wedding pictures as all my friends and family got a bit snap-happy on the day on their iPhones.

We do have a picture of the best men and ushers holding me horizontally, but to be fair, it’s on the dance floor, and we are all obviously smashed, so at least it was a “natural” moment, I guess.

BikeRunSki · 28/04/2019 12:10

@MsFanakerPants

We had none of them! Most family groups, cake, bride and godfather (DDad died 10 years before I got married). Our photos are very traditional rather than reportage.

InceyWinceyette · 28/04/2019 12:15

“The worst of all, the groom and all his friends holding the bride horizontally, so very normal and naturally”

Like a battering ram 😂

birdonawire1 · 28/04/2019 12:36

Glad we did the registry office thing with no photographer!

This is what I mean - grim

To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?
To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?
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birdonawire1 · 28/04/2019 12:37

Does anyone actually kiss like that in real life? Would give me backache

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Alsohuman · 28/04/2019 12:41

Reminds me of this.

BethanyGilbert · 28/04/2019 12:41

Oh no I like them. The genuine ones not the silly over exaggerated ones.

Babyfoal · 28/04/2019 12:49

I like them. New cheese has replaced old cheese.

ParkheadParadise · 28/04/2019 12:49

My sister has horrendous wedding pictures. My favourite is the both of them under a tree, on the other side if the tree they are watching themselves under the tree. At the time she thought it was lovely my mum had it up on the wall.

StealthPolarBear · 28/04/2019 12:52

" standing arm outside a clap clinic with our fingers crossed"
:o

birdonawire1 · 28/04/2019 12:52

I think the photographers just get bored.

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louisvootin · 28/04/2019 13:00

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goldenchicken · 28/04/2019 14:50

I do think THESE are ace though! Grin 🦖🚀🦖🚀🦖

To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?
To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?
To hate that obligatory bent over kiss so common in wedding photos nowadays?
AnyoneButAnton · 28/04/2019 15:03

I love the ridiculous “being chased by T Rex photos” as long as they’re not compulsory and only those members of the wedding party who are really up for it get involved.

There’s a great short story by Jeffrey Archer of all people about a wedding photographer who wants to blow away the dusty old traditional wedding photo cliches and finds that ten years later his style represents the dusty old cliches that people are now desperate to escape.

Fiveredbricks · 28/04/2019 16:47

Those glasses 😂

RosemarysBush · 28/04/2019 16:57

90s bride here 👋. Love my pic of hubs and friends holding me up, horizontally. He looks like he’s gonna pass out!!

x2boys · 28/04/2019 17:32

Well to be fair nobody really gives a shit about anyone else's wedding photos other than the bride and groom ,my much younger cousin got married last year and the photos (that were posted on facebook) were all as the pp poster described flowers shot, dress hanging up.shot ,cufflinks shot etc etc,I do like looking at my mum and dad's wedding album from the early 70,s purely for the hideous fashion!

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