Passive aggressive meal?

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Probably me being paronoid and reading to much into this. If you were served a toddler sized roast dinner that had overcooked vegetables and undercooked potatoes (hard on the inside and somehow soggy on the outside) made by someone who is a fairly good cook would you consider that a passive aggressive f**k you. The potatoes were worse than any supermarket own frozen potatoes I have tried. There was no crazy or any sauces. Person who served it is my Mil. She wanted us to visit on Easter Sunday, we were busy so compromised with Easter Monday. She won't have been happy with this because she wants it her way.

I don't know anything about your relationship with your MIL but I am considered to be a pretty good cook yet have also served up some absolute stinkers (and, if I have allowed my husband to do the shopping, have also found myself in the mortifying position of having barely enough to go round).

I think you should read Toxic In Laws by Susan Forward. I think there is a lot going on here and you are only now just realising the extent of it.