Hello,
I have been on two dates with someone I met through OLD. He seems very sweet and is the perfect gentleman, letting me choose where we should eat and insisting on paying, etc which is lovely. Also hasn't talked about sex which makes a refreshing change.
Some things are really concerning me though and putting me off. When we are on our date he tells me a few times how beautiful I am and how much he's enjoying spending time with me. Its lovely but sort of creeps me out. Then at the end of both dates, while waiting for our respective trains, he tells me how much he's enjoyed spending time with me and can't wait to do it again. Also at the end of the second date, he said 'love you'
This was as I was getting on my train and I texted him and asked him if I misheard or he said that and he confirmed he had. I then text back and said he was going way too fast and that really freaked me out. He apologised and said because it was only his second real relationship, his first one was very long term and emotionallt abusive, he's a bit over excited and was very apologetic. Apart from those things, he would probably make a great partner lol. He wants to take me on another date so he can show me how he really can be and has promised to tone it all down but I don't know what to do now.