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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to ask a silly question?

119 replies

brizzlemint · 16/04/2019 20:09

....As microwaves are made of metal inside why can't you put metal things inside them when you are cooking something?

and if you have a silly question please ask it to make me feel less of a fool! Grin

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TinselAndKnickers · 17/04/2019 00:51

Baby pigeons look like bollocks

That is my most favourite thing I have ever read on Mumsnet.

TinselAndKnickers · 17/04/2019 00:52

What is that random eyebrow or eyelid twitch that I sometimes get? Feels very intense but nobody can see it!

Lollypop701 · 17/04/2019 01:28

I’m in bed with a cold , wide awake and sneezing.this thread is making feeling sneezy more bearable. Glad no one can smell my germs cold ridden body!

DoctorHildegardLanstrom · 17/04/2019 01:53

I have had exploding head syndrome.

I got up and answered the door, waking me fully up.

That was the first time and now I know about it, I try to ignore it

e1y1 · 17/04/2019 02:54

I have the exploding head syndrome but only rarely - tends to be a single bang or oddly the sound of my doorbell.

The one I do have a LOT (almost nightly) is the same as what @Claw01 describes. The term for it is Hypnic Jerk (or the closely related Hypnagogia) - it's something to do with the brain and body falling asleep at different times and a protection mechanism.

TK421 · 17/04/2019 07:43

I get the exploding head thing, usually a loud slam or doorbell. It’s rare and usually only if I need to get to sleep during the day. Yes also to sneezing in bright light. I had also heard it was genetic.

@UterusUterusGhali - sets of traffic lights in towns and cities are often linked, especially along major routes. It’s to help the traffic flow, although it doesn’t feel like that if you consistently just miss the green and get the red all the time.

brizzlemint · 17/04/2019 07:45

Baby pigeons look like bollocks

But baby pigeons are cute and bollocks aren't Grin

Love the perpetual motion machine Grin

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Claw01 · 17/04/2019 09:00

e1y1 glad I’m not the only one! I will have a google.

Tinselsandknockers I get that too!

I love all this useless information, it’s really interesting! I’m trying to decide if we are all a bit geeky or just a bit weird! Grin

brizzlemint · 17/04/2019 09:15

Is the hypnic jerk where you feel like you are falling when you are going to sleep?

I want to know why little thunder bugs like yellow so much. If it was because of pollen then surely other insects would attracted to yellow clothes? And why wasn't it an issue until the last few years?

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BlackPrism · 17/04/2019 09:44

@brizzlemint it was an issue before the last few years - hundreds used to swarm on the yellow sports team in my primary school in the late 90s/2000s. They had to hide in the shade while the rest of us were OK!

I would presume it's because yellow is so much brighter so it calls their attention more.

mrsmorton · 17/04/2019 11:09

With identifying bodies from dental records, it's unusual to have no idea of who someone is. Either there's strong circumstantial suspicion and the coroner requires confirmation or it's a "closed" case (such as a plane crash) where you know the IDs of eg six people but not which remains belong to which person. Open cases can remain unresolved for years (like the Kings Cross fire) and rarely, people use the opportunity of a mass event to "go missing" which can confuse things.

If the coroner requires confirmation, there are a few primary methods which they will accept, these are DNA, fingerprints, odontology and (in the UK) uniquely serial numbered medical implants. Odontology is quick, cheap and reliable (can have an ID within the hour for less than £100) compared to the other methods, it also doesn't require a reference DNA sample which families can sometimes find distressing.

The police may request dental records of people believed to be missing and then it's a case of elimination based on missing teeth, restorations etc. Occasionally it gets into very fine detail if people have a full, unrestored mouth.

If a body is found and there's no indication of who it might be, sometimes the police will put a notice in the dental press, especially if there's something unusual about the teeth or mouth or if it's obvious it was in an active treatment plan.

When you're called to see a body that has no indication of ID, sometimes you can narrow down the demographic for example, age, sometimes culture, likely socioeconomic status, recent treatment, whether teeth were broken pre/peri/post mortem and so on. This is sometimes useful for the police.

When it's a closed case, it's simply a matter of looking at the ante mortem records and comparing them to the post mortem data. There's software that helps with this but i've not used it as I haven't been involved in a large enough case. It's relatively straightforward for cases of 5/6 people.

With an open case (such as the Morecambe Bay cockle pickers and some large scale IDs like those of migrants who die on their way to the UK), odontology is just part of a team that includes anthropologists and other forensic experts who have amazing knowledge of tattoos and jewellery and clothing and so on. These cases are exceptionally difficult compared to say, the London tube bombings as no-one knows their relative is missing save they left the country that they were usually resident in. They may not be reported as missing for years. With a mass UK event, there are special call handlers who work closely with the police to ensure the correct information is captured as quickly as possible.

ScrewyMcScrewup · 17/04/2019 11:12

What is that random eyebrow or eyelid twitch that I sometimes get? Feels very intense but nobody can see it!

My eyelid does that when I'm really tired.

I also get a twitch in my thigh, which is weirder!

Brilliantidiot · 17/04/2019 12:05

I get the photic sneeze thing, I also need to wear sunglasses even when it's not really bright or I end up with a cracking headache.
I also sneeze when I've got a tickle in my throat.
I get an eyelid twitch when I've been on a screen mumsnet a lot and I can see it in a mirror, but I also get one regularly where my buttock meets my thigh - which is wierd!

Claw01 · 17/04/2019 14:11

Google tells me the eye twitching is called myokymia! If it persists or is constant you should see an ‘eye doctor’.

Bum twitches, you should see a bum doctor Grin

I found out by accident the other day, that airplanes have ashtrays, even newly built ones? Didn’t say why.

brizzlemint · 17/04/2019 14:18

@blackprism maybe I just never wore yellow as a child! I didn't notice it until I had children myself.

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pigsDOfly · 17/04/2019 14:45

This thread is really interesting.

I've got one.

When I was a child/teenager, as I was going to sleep, I would 'see' floating faces in front of me that would change shape and merge - think 'The Scream'.

The only other person I know who has told me they've had this was my mother. She also read a book many years ago that referred to 'the faces you see before sleep'.

Anyone else have this? I assume it's something I grew out of as I've never had it as an adult.

Claw01 · 17/04/2019 14:55

The hearing and seeing things before sleep is interesting. Can I ask does anyone who experiences this take any medication?

My son has Autism, he was prescribed Melatonin to help with sleep and he had hallucinations, seeing and hearing things.

pigsDOfly · 17/04/2019 15:02

No medication in my case Claw01. I was a child when it happened, and it happened frequently, but I've never had it as an adult.

tardyheart · 17/04/2019 15:03

That's really interesting mrsmorton thankyou.

I've always wondered why Octopuses tentacles don't ever get stuck together, but then I suppose they must be able to control them (each suction bit) or detect them somehow.

Claw01 · 17/04/2019 15:12

pigs thanks, my son has never had it without medication, so must be the meds. He found it really scary and didn’t see or hear nice things.

Dizzywizz · 17/04/2019 16:18

@pigsDOfly I always had that as a child when I felt poorly - fever??? I don’t get it as an adult though

pigsDOfly · 17/04/2019 16:52

Dizzywizz Oh yes, the awful things I'd see when unwell with a fever but that was in the days before we had things like Calpol for children to bring down a temperature.

But the faces I saw, and it was always faces, was a regular thing as I was going to sleep.

I can't remember if I was frightened by them, I imagine I was as I was a fairly nervous sort of child; perhaps it was connected to that.

I asked one of my DDs a short while ago if she had the same thing as a child, although I would probably have been aware of it, and she had no idea what I was talking about.

MissYeti · 17/04/2019 17:04

The reason you look different in the mirror and in photos is down to the lens as shown in the gif below!

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MissYeti · 17/04/2019 17:12

@MooBaaLaLaLa
@BooksAreMyOnlyFriends

Sorry couldn't tag you and paste gif link at the same time 😳😳

SilentBob · 17/04/2019 17:13

Some commercial microwaves are fine with metal in them.

Photic sneezing is definitely a thing- can also be triggered by dark chocolate and cherries.