Plans for an Easter lunch arranged by my best friend, DH, DSS, BF, Her DH and their 2 DC all invited. Sounds lovely, really looking forward to it. BF got a text out of the blue last night ‘I know that you have plans to see ‘the justwantaneasylifenowpleases’ and that my DC is invited. Can we meet before to have a chat, I would be grateful.’……. BF feels really awkward and doesn’t want to have a chat with DSS’s mum. (I avoid DSS’s mum at all costs after years of vitriolic abuse) Her DH is annoyed in his words ‘what the fuck does she want, all I want is a relaxing day’ She has previously called BF’s DH all the names under the sun when DH and I were concerned for DS’s welfare (DH was out of the country) and BF’s DH went round to check they were ok. AIBU to think there is no reason for her to contact BF and for DH to have a word with her, asking her not to reach out to our friends as it is upsetting them? If it was a concern she had with DSS coming to lunch surely she should talk to DH, all feels a bit underhand to me.
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To think there is no real reason for DSS's mum to contact best friend?
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Justwantaneasylifenowplease · 16/04/2019 04:14
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