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To send neighbour a bill for tumble drying

35 replies

Thatsnotmyotter · 12/04/2019 11:07

Another nice sunny day and neighbour is having yet another bloody fire in his garden. I just want to hang out my washing! I know it’s not illegal or anything but it’s still inconsiderate!

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SosigDog · 12/04/2019 11:11

Why is he having a fire? Blast music until he complains then tell him you’ll turn it off if he stops having fires. Two can play at antisocial behaviour!

InspectorClouseauMNdivision · 12/04/2019 11:12

Actually it may be against local by-laws. Councils can put restrictions on burning stuff.

SuchAToDo · 12/04/2019 11:13

What is he burning?

PlainSpeakingStraightTalking · 12/04/2019 11:14

Why cant you knock and ask reasonably - instead of the ridiculous advice you'll get on here about blasting him out with music or reporting him.

TheQueef · 12/04/2019 11:14

Garden waste?

bibbitybobbityyhat · 12/04/2019 11:20

It is illegal in some places. But just say: "could you have your fire after dark? people are trying to enjoy the lovely weather".

I've had to do this and although there was some grumbling, the selfish thoughtless numpty did comply.

Thatsnotmyotter · 12/04/2019 11:21

He’s burning fence panels I think as some damaged ones were replaced yesterday. I assume before that it has been garden waste. We use cloth nappies and it’s so much nicer to line dry when possible but don’t want them to be all smokey.

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BloodyDisgrace · 12/04/2019 11:24

Unless he is burning CDs and old wellington boots specially to annoy you, he is not doing anything wrong. You know, gardens are hazardous areas where such atrocities as cat shit, a sight of someone's ugly trampoline, sound of some children etc. can happen.

RandomUsernameHere · 12/04/2019 11:26

I think it's illegal to burn treated wood

DoNotBlameMeIVotedRemain · 12/04/2019 11:28

I was going to say YWBU as having an occasional fire is normal. But if it's treated wood I'd ask him to stop as is bad for health.

LakieLady · 12/04/2019 11:33

Where I used to live, there was a byelaw prohibiting bonfires before sunset or 7pm, whichever was earlier.

Until I moved, I had no idea that this wasn't a national thing, but imo ut damn well should be. Where I used to live, a neighbour was bonfire mad and was always having the things. One very hot day in early summer, he lit a bonfire and the whole family fucked off out for the day, leaving it burning. Smoke and bits of burning stuff were blowing into the garden of our flats and in people's open windows. My neighbour in the top flat (which was really hot, as up in the eaves) had to shut all her windows.

We were so pissed off, I called the fire brigade and they came round and put it out. They also came back the following evening and read him the riot act about leaving a bonfire burning unattended in built-up area full of old houses.

That neighbour was also my boss. Grin He never believed that I'd have the nerve to call the fire brigade and the Chief Fire Officer and I had many a laugh about it.

Bonfires are very anti-social in urban areas and I think everywhere should have a byelaw like the one above.

If it's a frequent problem OP, you can report it to the council and they can take action under Control of Pollution legislation.

Jupiters · 12/04/2019 11:35

Have you spoken to him about it?

BrokenWing · 12/04/2019 11:41

You say again, how often does he have the fires and what is he burning? Have you told him its impacting you using your garden and asked him to stop?

If you have asked him to stop it would be worth a call to the council and environment health team to ask for advice, telling them it is regular (weekly?), it is causing a nuisance and your ability to enjoy your property (children cant be outdoors, windows cant be open, washing etc) and also if you are concerned he is burning household waste which could be toxic (plastic, painted/treated wood, plastic coated paper etc)

dronesdroppingzopiclone · 12/04/2019 11:41

Just freshen them up in the dryer later.

Jebuschristchocolatebar · 12/04/2019 11:44

Here is nothing more annoying. We have builders next door and the dust is awful so can’t hang anything out. Thankfully bonfires are illegal in gardens in 🇮🇪. Just call In and in your most passive aggressive manner ask him if has much more burning to do

murree · 12/04/2019 11:45

Our neighbour does this every weekend! We had to shout out the window the last time as we had our washing out - luckily he put it out until the evening.
If you are on speaking terms I would go round and ask him to wait until the evening to light his fires - he may not realise how much of a pain in the ass it is for everyone else!
If he fails to stop call the council - it can be classed as causing a nuisance.

TFBundy · 12/04/2019 11:48

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MumUndone · 12/04/2019 11:50

Yeah it's really antisocial, some people just don't get that. The smell gives me bad headaches.

PregnantSea · 12/04/2019 11:54

Just knock and explain. He probably hasn't even thought about someone wanting to hang out washing

Gottalovesummer · 12/04/2019 11:58

OP, knock on neighbours door and request that bonfires are not lit until evening and /or everyone's washing has been taken in.

Surely that's worth a try?

Mummyoflittledragon · 12/04/2019 11:59

Just freshen them up in the dryer later.
I don’t see how that could work unless op wants air de bonfire wafting through her kitchen / utility and wear clothes imbued with eau de fumée.

Yadnbu
Our neighbour does this. It annoys the hell out of me as well as being very bad, even deadly for asthmatics.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 12/04/2019 12:03

Hang it on a clothes horse with the windows open or go and ask him if he'd mind burning after 5pm.

Sedona123 · 12/04/2019 12:05

Same as LakieLady here. Bonfires aren't allowed before dusk. Weirdly though, builders are allowed to burn removed shrubbery and wood during the day.

Tonightstheteriyakichicken · 12/04/2019 12:14

I'm sure many areas still have that bylaw saying no bonfires until dusk. Are you the only neighbour affected, it helps your cause if there's more than one objection. Call round and explain it's a nuisance regarding hanging out washing and enjoyment of your garden. Stay civil and see what happens.

SeaToSki · 12/04/2019 12:15

If they are burning treated fence panels, it will be giving off toxic smoke. You can report it as a nuisance, and some councils have specifically banned it altogether