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That my surgeon was switched1
Today 00:21 AMBE123
Ok so I recently had to have colo-rectal surgery. The surgeon (I'll call him Dr A) came to see me when I was admitted and explained what they were doing, then the anaesthetist came and introduced himself etc. Happy so far and they took me down for the op an hour later. I was a bit puzzled that the doctor didn't come round after the surgery to explain what they'd done, how it went etc as I thought from past experience that this was a thing, but the nurse read his notes and told me what they said before they sent me home.
So this was a week ago and I have just read the discharge letter and it says that another Dr (Dr B) did the surgery. AIBU to feel like I was misled and they switched on me? I know it's the NHS and there's no guarantee of a particular doctor, but I do feel a bit that if a Dr is going to be up my bum doing nasty things while I'm unconscious, the least he could do is introduce himself first.
(What makes it worse is that I met the Dr who it now turns out did the surgery at the previous visit; he was rude, abrupt and I just didn't trust him, which is a very very rare reaction for me.)
I feel like I was deceived about who would be doing the surgery. I know what matters is that whoever does it can do a good job, but it just still doesn't sit right with me.
Any medical people here - is this normal practice in the NHS? I lived abroad for a few years so maybe my expectations got skewed.....