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To be so hurt by my doctor's comment

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Lisalacuistot · 11/04/2019 13:12

Long time reader but first time poster. I have epilepsy. Been struggling with it for years. I am now 25 , and is on new medications that have been more effective than all the ones I have tried before. But the side effects are awful ( I am depressed all the time , so tired , gained weight , can barely walk the first few hours after taking it).

I have explained that to my doctor. He then told me that all anticonvulsants have this type of side effects. Because they are meant to slow down your brain activity. I am OK with the drowsiness and tiredness ( Experienced it with all the anti epilepsy drugs I have taken in the past). But not the feeling of sadness and crying all the time.

So , he asked me where I am originally from. Which I told him. He proceeded to say " Well people in your home country don't even have food , so you should be happy and grateful that you even have access to medication. You are being difficult , better be depressed than dead because of epilepsy in Ethiopia."

He did really hurt me. Am I being too sensitive or is it unprofessional to say that ?

OP posts:
Lalliella · 11/04/2019 20:18

That is awful OP. So sorry you had to go through this. Please report him and please request another doctor. I hope they can get you sorted out. Flowers for you

Thatsalovelycuppatea · 11/04/2019 20:20

How arrogant. Report to practise management.

trollopeater · 11/04/2019 20:20

I doubt this happened, that's how bad that comment was

Witchtower · 11/04/2019 20:21

Report him!

stayathomer · 11/04/2019 20:23

Definitely get a new doctorFlowers

NWQM · 11/04/2019 20:46

You need to report.

Whilst I do understand that you all feel that you have to do what you are told you are all actually colluding with this.... a child going all day without food whilst you in your care!

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