Fact is, we either won't be leaving the EU at all, or if we do, in the softest possible way.
JRM has turned, The Sun is turning.
You can 'Yeh, but/no, but' all you like. We have a Remain government because they all know how stupid pulling out of the EU would be, how catastrophic for many of their harder-of-thinking constituents.
If you are a rabid No Dealer, your best bet is to understand that battle has been lost, limp off and lick your wounds, and prepare a better, more plausible campaign next time; one that convinces a Supermajority of a motivated, educated electorate.
Oh, and see if you can manage to keep it legal this time, eh? 😉