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To think it's pretty dickish to have toys you can look at...

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mynameissleepy · 20/03/2019 14:46

But not play with?

My parents are extremely precious over material things. Example..Their car is very basic, 15 years old but my Dad will park it miles away from anyone to make sure it's "safe".

They refuse to come to my house unless I move one of our cars onto the road outside and free up a space on the driveway. It's a very quiet road, not main road or anything.

They have a toy at their house...a particular vehicle that my just turned 2 year old is obsessed with. Every time he goes to touch the toy they are repeatedly saying be careful, ignoring conversation around them and watching him closely, then grabbing it at every opportunity.

I lost it this morning and said to hide the sodding thing and to put it away when we visit because it caused a huge tantrum. He was playing with it nicely and they snatched it when he was distracted. Annoying when I'm teaching him that we don't snatch etc. Hmm

It's worth about £15, not a collectible. Something that if he did break it, I would replace immediately.

They've always been tight but this is too far imo. But I'm also very laid back about material things so might be being unreasonable.

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AtrociousCircumstance · 20/03/2019 23:03

Please buy exactly the same truck and bring it with you.

Please
Please
Pleeeeereeease Grin

TwiceAsNice22 · 20/03/2019 23:17

I really think you need to say something to them. If you buy the same car, they will just get another toy and do the same thing. It sounds quite deliberate what they are doing. Who on earth put a toy in a toy box and expects a 2 year old not to play with it?

My own parents house was a bit of a nightmare when my DT’s were that age. Its full of expensive art and is not child proof at all. But my parents put away what they could and got special toys for my children to play with.

There is a big difference in teaching children that they can’t play with everything and to respect other people’s things and teasing them by giving them a toy and expecting it to be just looked at.

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