Entitled BIL

[LittleMissUnreasonable]

I may be being unreasonable here but feeling a bit fed up with BILs entitledness. His GF (my sister) was unwell in bed and they were due to be packing to move in together that day so I dropped BIL a message explaining the situation and he said he would come around in the early evening with the van. I then began packing up all DSis things while she slept. Hadn't heard back from BIL and it was getting on for 9pm so I assumed he wasn't coming. I finally took a break from packing after 8 hours and sat down, door bursts open at 10pm making me jump out my skin. It was BIL who arrived with the van. He then proceeds to begin packing things up in the van, trapsing up and down the stairs clattering about till midnight. All that was fine, annoying but fine.
Next day, as DSis was in bed still, me and BIL were loading the van up, overall we managed to pack up everything in about 5 hours. DSis was feeling better so we decided to go to a cafe for much deserved grub. DSis paid for BIL and I brought my food with no offers. My food came to just over a fiver. BIL and DSIS are on combined salary of 65k so not short of money.
BIL also got gifted a substantial amount of deposit money for their house from his father and didn't get him a birthday present because he 'forgot'. I'm probably being unreasonable but just needed a rant

[NCforthis2019]

Your sister is taking you for an idiot and treating you as a skivvy yet it’s her boyfriend you have an issue with. Great.

[Frenchmontana]

OP do you have form for treating her like a princess?

I cant help thinking she knew exactly what you would do, when she took to her bed. She knew you would end yo doing it all.

If so, she is in for a rude awakening when the baby comes.

[justasking111]

Oh your DS is cheeky, it was for her to treat you. Her boyfriend had probably done a day at work and then had to organise the move with you.

[youknowmedontyou]

Why didn't you pay for their lunch?

Honestly OP stop being walked over by your Sister!

She'd done fuck all packing even though she was moving that day,...... nothing! Still she didn't need to because she hadyou to do it!

Entitled BIL my arse!

[Onceuponacheesecake]

Eh? Sounds like he cracked on and was working his arse off. Why would he owe you anything, what is the relevance to his wage and gifted deposit?

If I was your sister I'd have insisted on paying for both of your meals. Your sister is cheeky here.

[LittleMissFunTimes]

Grown adults on good salaries should be paying professionals to move them, not recruiting innocent by-standers. My EXH is in high management on a v good salary. To move out of our house he got his bff to take a day off his self employed work and his middle aged, over weight and slightly infirm father to both help. Cheeky, cheeky fuckers. Think of this as a wake up call. Stay well away.

[Grumpelstilskin]

Your sister sounds like a right piss taking CF. I would not lift a finger for her again.

[Purpleartichoke]

The person who is supposed to step up and do the packing during pregnancy sickness is the father of the baby. I think you would be better off asking yourself why you are helping her move in with him in the first place.

[ScarletBitch]

Your sister is a CF, she is pregnant not bloody dying!