To think I'm not liked?

[sammypre]

I've been friends with a woman for 16 years.
The thing is she's always spoke to me like shit and I know she's spoke about me behind my back.
It kills her to give me a compliment.
Got my hair done last week and another friend said to her "oh isn't her hair nice"
And she just shrugged her shoulders ..
These other two friends (less than a year she's known them ) oh wow girls your hair is amazing ,your outfits amazing blah blah.
I'm a good friend to her,babysit her kids,help her out with things,always there for her.
She has such a attitude with me and short with me,eye rolls etc
Aibu to think she doesn't really like me?
She will say oh what you wearing that for then two weeks later wearing something similar.
I think I'm a nice person.
I met one of her mutual friends and she said "oh Louise loves you...not sure why ha "
Deep down she probably meant it
It makes me sad.

In return, not I.

Of course Louise loves you.

You are an unpaid baby sitter.

Be unavailable to help out and then see how much she loves you

Im sorrry she treats you like this friends are nice to each other it sounds like she is used to you being around propping her up you need to decide if you want to be around for her or not because she won't change.

She sounds foul. I know someone like this, but I would never call her a friend!

You became work colleagues and she's carried on being friends to, make her feel good, take the piss and then because you are useful.

Stand up for yourself. Tell her to lose the tone etc.