To be really hurt and pissed off by my friend

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Okay -the old pelvic floor muscles are not quite what they were -I’m working on them tho. But I still like to wear a light pad “just in case” . I was out on Friday nite with my new ish partner, my friend and her bloke. Evening was going well but for whatever reason she felt the need to ask my partner if I’d told him about my Tena lady pads yet -dead silence .The conversation moved on -but all a bit awkward . I feel pretty bloody humiliated and reluctant to want to speak to her again. She’d had a few glasses of wine but even so ....My partner hasn’t mentioned it -I guess he wouldn’t but I feel like crap ☹️

She's not a friend, She's a bitch!
I'd fuck her off tbh.

OMG, I have heard some nasty things, but that takes the biscuit. What a total bitch.

What are you planning to do?

That is such a genuinely unpleasant thing to do to a friend that it wouldn’t surprise me if your new boyfriend thought it was not true and was just an ill-judged/weird joke. After all, who on earth would do such a thing to an actual friend. I often think MN can be a bit quick to advise posters to drop a friend but this woman is not your friend. Just never speak to her or waste another minute of your time thinking about her ever again.

Wow how nasty! That woman is not a friend! I would have been mortified.

The only thing she’s really done is made herself look like a complete bitch, hence the dead silence. If I was you, I wouldn’t be contacting her again.

Yep I’d drop her immediately! She’s no friend, she knew exactly what she was doing OP.

Get rid OP.

You don't need people like that in your life.
Your poor DP as well, she embarrassed the both of you to get her kicks. Not nice at all.

I would have punched her, but I'm a menopausal old bag, who gave up giving a fuck a few years ago .

Definitely horrible behaviour from your “friend” - I’d be ghosting her tbh

Not unreasonable at all.

You deserve better, drop her. She sounds jealous.

I'd have said yeah it's fine, how's your new colostomy bag going

You shouldn't feel like crap-she should.

What a nasty person she is.

Shame you & your partner didn't just walk away.

Still, you can now!

She is a jealous spiteful cow.

I wouldn’t call that a ‘friend’....

She is an utter cunt, unworthy of your friendship. Drop her like a hot brick

I would not speak to her again and I would message her, explain why, then block.

Bitch.

What an awfully unkind, vindictive thing to do . You don't need "friends" like this OP.

She sounds like the sort of person who throws people on the bus or tears them down to get a laugh/attention. Get rid, and I’m sorry she embarrassed you.

^under the bus

What a strange and unpleasant person she is.

He probably has no idea what she's talking about. Or he didn't want to entertain the silly woman.

Sounds like she is jealous of you and wanted to humiliate you. Do you want someone like this in your life?

My so called 'friend' did something similar to me on my birthday night out no less, tried to make an absolute tit of me in front of my DP and then flirted outrageously with him to boot.

He told her she was making a show of herself

She is NOT a friend OP, swerve the bitch!

Unless she is 8 years old, she is a jealous bitch and she is not your friend.

No one would make a joke, no one would fait to understand how embarrassing it is.

I do not accept the "alcohol" excuse. You fall down accidentally when you are drunk, your personality does not change.

That's a really crappy thing to do no matter how much she'd had to drink, I'd be reconsidering the friendship. On the upside it seems your partner isn't bothered and didn't rise to your 'friends' crap.