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Men and Porn/Girl pics

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CM7900X · 05/03/2019 10:54

Hoping for some clarity here on the general consensus when it comes tp men and porn. Where do you draw the line ?

Are you happy for your other half to watch Porn and look at naked photos of women online etc? To be clear, no personal contact I.e no chatting/messaging etc just looking.....

Does it bother you or make you feel inadequate ? Found a lot of it on DH phone, Porn vids, photos, girls profiles and absolutely crucified him for it but on reflection think I may have been unreasonable. We've been together 17 years with 3DS and he's always been brilliant no trust issues . Weve watched porn together but there's something about him doing it alone thats pissed me off

Are you ok with your other halves looking at and searching for these vids and pics or would you feel hurt ?

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GloryforGloves · 05/03/2019 23:32

Wedgiecar58

It’s okay - turns out you were very right. I asked him this morning (coincidentally) and he said no. After a discussion this evening about porn this evening (based on the article posted above) turns out he does. I guess some people never change (though I think my username will after this). I really was fucking naive and stupid.

peachgreen · 05/03/2019 23:45

Oh @GloryforGloves I'm sorry to hear that. For what it's worth my DH and I both had slip ups before we stopped for good. It's a hard habit to break. At least he's told you now. Thanks

Skittlesss · 06/03/2019 08:14

@GloryforGloves
Oh no, has he said why he is doing it? I would be upset about the lies, but I guess if he knows your stance on it he probably didn’t want to upset you. Flowers

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