breaking the girl code ?? wtf

[paintinmyhairAgain]

have seen this expression a lot recently, are the users under 13. surely it's not relevant to apply to a woman. yet another shite expression doing the rounds,

what expressions give you the rage ?

End of.
Wow. Just wow.

The 'sweet spot' fuck off already.

can i get a latte /flat white etc. no you bloody well can't unless you are actually serving. ggrr.

Duty .. said the American way . Dudee

Touching base. Ugh.

Leaning in.
Making memories.
Famalam.
Goals.
Living my best life.
‘Right now’ at the end of sentences.
‘So’ at the beginning of sentences.

I need a shower after writing that lot

I learned them.

No you didn't.

You taught them.

What exactly is the girl code anyway? I've only ever seen it on here and it appears to involve not sleeping with another woman's partner. Is there any more to it or is that it?

Yes I agree Iloveliberty- To be honest with you - usually used by someone untrustworthy

and Guys.
"Hi guys, what can I get you to drink?"
"You guys ready to order yet?"
Just sounds false, why not say "would you like drinks?"

‘Super’ used as an intensifier, e.g ‘I was super happy to see you’. Grrrrrr

hun

I'm not anyone's hun, if you call me hun I am definitely going to Judge you.

'At the end of the day' - often an excuse for not caring about how a result is arrived at in a moral sense, just get there, ifyswim.

Famalam

Argh that’s my new hated word.

I’ve managed to get over ‘holibobs’ but anyone who says famalam pisses me right off.

I've never heard that phrase. It sounds like something incel-types might say, about trying to 'hack into' what it is to be a girl, so they can manipulate that code in order to insert themselves.

I must add 'envisioned' - no, you didn't. 'I thought or imagined' is perfectly adequate.
Will you 'trade' - I'd prefer a good old fashioned 'swap.'

"Just saying"

Aargh. Shorthand for 'I just said something rude or offensive to you, you picked me up on it, but saying 'just saying' I am telling you I have no responsibility for actually saying it so you shouldn't have a go at me but I still think it's true and it's for your own good'

Them: 'You are a fat cow'
Me: WTF?
Them: 'Just Saying'
Me, apparently: 'Oh that's OK then, you were Just Saying it'

GRRRR.

making memories
blessed
hey guys
touching base
need to connect with you

Oh, and when did that traditional English staple Macaroni Cheese become Mac n Cheese?

I sort of like 'girl code' for girls. It was important for my DD when she was younger and didn't just involve not getting off with your friend's boyfriend or ex. It also meant looking out for each other, not leaving a friend on her own to get home, not leaving a friend drunk in a field at a festival, that sort of stuff. It gave me comfort that they were principled about looking out for each other. I've not really heard it apply to adult women.

“Makes my teeth itch” - hate it

did you mean to be so rude ? < this ggrrr - yeah, i did so what ?

A lot to unpack.

A 'pop' of colour AAAAH ; this was said on a TV interior design programme and all of us MN posters agreed how annoying it was. But it's still being said WHY????

I agree about "The end of the day" it could mean ANYTHING

youtube influencers what a load of shite that is.

'My bad'. It sounds like something only a toddler should say!