What do you want right now?

[minieggsqueen]

Me,
Financial security/stability
A career I enjoy
My own private apartment
A loving partner (mines not been very nice to me these past 2 days- I hate to say it as he's usually perfect, but some gaslighting behaviours going on..)

Just now he told me off for booking a 10am appointment tomorrow and said it was my fault, when in reality 4 days ago he TOLD ME to book it at that time as it works for him.

I just don't know what to do when he gets like this. I cooked him dinner tonight and he finishes and calls me a cretin for not tidying the bed. I don't know what's gotten into him. (We joke about and call each other names regularly but always laughing and smiling so it's 100% out of character to use this word in a stressing/annoyed tone).

@minieggsqueen I have a DD that is just a little bit younger than you. She lives with her boyfriend and we really like him. However, if she said he was treating her in a way she wasn't happy with I'd have her home as soon as she could pack no questions asked. Hell, I'd even go and pick her up and I hate driving 

@whatdoyouwantfromme I hope you get your wish.

I'd like a diet that still allowed me to drink lots of wine and eat lots of chocolate. I'd also like to live closer to my siblings and my in laws - I feel as if my DC are missing out on knowing their cousins.

Dear @minieggsqueen - just checking in and hoping you're ok?

I've misplaced £450 in cash and going mad looking for it. It was for the car mot and service.

So sorry to hear you're going through this op. Stop doing stuff for him. No need to argue, just grey rock the ungrateful shit and do not a single thing for him.

Hugs and strength to everyone else on this thread going through a hard time.