So last night Dp and I went out for a lovely v day evening. I was really up for sex until I got home and changed my mind. When he tried to initiate I told him I didn’t want to and he said okay.
I told him I wasn’t going to make myself give in for special occasions like birthdays or valentines and such if I just didn’t feel like it because it would set a standard up for the rest of our life.
I feel bad though, should I make the effort to be intimate on special occassions or is ‘I’m not in the mood’ a perfectly good excuse not to?
He is lovely and hasn’t made me feel bad at all, this is all my thoughts on my own. We have sex regularly, I’m just specifically talking about occasions