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To be tired too?

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Grinchyboo · 14/02/2019 09:59

Ok i get it! (Well I don't cos I don't have kids) parents are tired, they have sleepless nights and have to do all the jobs that come along with parenting but as a person who doesn't have kids am I not allowed to be tired as well?

I know there is gonna be back lash for this but honestly it's soooo annoying when I say I'm tired because I've been up half the night with phantom pains in my residual limb (amputated 5 years ago) or even if I've been out drinking the night before and I'm just generally tired. Or if i have had a busy week of walking here there and everywhere which tires me out. But people with kids are like "you don't know what tired is!" Or "how can YOU be tired? You have no kids keeping you up?" I've been told off for saying I'm tired by multiple parents as if it's a fricken competition? Surely ANYONE can be chronically tired? Everyone has their own levels of tolerance for sleep deprivation. It's especially annoying when my tiredness is dismissed at work but someone with a kid says it and they get special treatment. The other week my boss let a colleague sit and do paperwork all day(usually the managers job) because they were tired! Sigh

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Pursefirst · 14/02/2019 15:43

I wish I had worked with some of the parents on this thread when I was having chemo and radiation for cancer.

I remember one day when I was almost crying with exhaustion, this particular gem said to me "Oh wait until you have kids and then you'll know what tiredness really is" and proceeded to tell me how she hadn't slept in years blah blah blah.

Well sorry Susan, but you chose to have the little horrors who are keeping you up all night, I didn't bloody chose to have this disease and treatment. GAH OP, this shite really makes me mad.

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