I used to be an engineer, working 50+ hours a week. Had to give that up when my relationship brokedown. I'm now single dad to a child that lives with me full time.
I went from £40k ish to £10k ish in the space of 3 months.
So here's my breakdown, rough and not to the absolute penny. (I don't know if I've done this before, I've just been doing my budget so figured id share it.)
UC In: £970
Out:
Rent: £500
C/tax: £60
Gas / Elec: £95
Water: £45
Internet: £40
UC Advance repay: £75
Tax credit overpayment reclaim: £30
Food for both: £100
Netflix: £7.99
Phone: £5
Total out: £957.99
Again, this is rough and I've rounded up a couple quid here or there. But it's basically my monthly ins and outs.
Unexpected bills, forget them.
Child needs school clothes? Tough tit.
Fancy a chippy tea? No way
Grab a bus to the supermarket? Fuck no.
A pint at the pub? In your dreams sunshine.
About the only thing I could drop is Netflix, but £7.99 is a drip in a flood. I could drop internet, but UC is all online and by the time I've got the bus to town to the library its cost more than £40 in the month. (based £3.50 return X 20 days)
Excerpt from a conversation with DWP staff:
"Well you should get a job then"
Cool... Good idea.. where in my budget can I save enough to pay for a month's childcare? Because UC doesn't pay child care, the claimant does and then claims back 85% the month after.
"Have friends or family watch children"
Friends are working, family are elderly or dead.
"Now you're just making excuses"
Do you want to see the death the certificates? I'll happily bring them in.
"Just get a job during school hours"
Good idea, pull up Indeed, take a look for some jobs in school hours only..
(10 minutes later)
"Well you could always apply for shop work and ask for s holiday hours only"
And also to not work weekends? Sure they'll go for that..
"I see what you mean... I don't know then... I'll book you in for a fortnight.."