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To go on skiiing hol despite DSIL?

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bluetheskyis · 11/02/2019 14:53

Need advice from skiers, preferably ‘bigger’ ones. Booked to go on a family ski holiday at Xmas with friends, not a posh place think family friendly not very trendy! Was really excited as never been skiing, kids will love it etc. Love idea of daily exercise, fresh air, & socialising with friends in evening. DSIL, who prides herself on being forthright took me aside and told me that there’s no way I can do it - I’ll be embarrassing myself ( and DP, kids) because I’m not fit enough and too fat. She reckons I won’t find ski clothes to wear anyway. And people will be staring, i’ll Slow everyone down, ski lift will be an issue.
Should I pull out? I’ve just paid deposit so there is time.
I’m currently size 18/20 but aiming to be at least 14/16 by Xmas as currently dealing with the weight issue, eating healthier, swim/ walk/play tennis or something every single day at the mo and losing 4-7 lbs a month. Which I feel is sustainable.
Am worried that I will be too fat to ski at 14-16 and will be surrounded by skinny, fit skiers even in the ski school.
Anyone on here plus size and gone ski-in gas a beginner?? I’d hate to miss out on the family holiday it will let them go ahead without me if it’s going to be a disaster.

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Damntheman · 12/02/2019 13:41

What a biiiiitch. I live in ski country and regularly see larger women (and men) than you skiing and having a great time. Ski lift won't even slightly be an issue. I hope you have a lovely time!

youknowmedontyou · 12/02/2019 14:26

Ignore her, you'll love sking and everyone in ski gear is the same size! I found it one of the friendliest least judgemental holidays ever.

Enjoy ❄️⛷🎿

bluetheskyis · 12/02/2019 17:22

Almost feel sorry for DSIL with some of these comments! She’s got issues... but not entirely evil luckily. Kinder to kids than grown ups.

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HolesinTheSoles · 12/02/2019 18:39

I'm a healthy weight and fit, I went skiing with my size 18 (I'm guessing) friend and if people were staring at either of us it was me because I have no coordination.

DSIL is being a real bitch.

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