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AIBU to think Employers cannot allocate annual leave?

125 replies

Daisydrum · 07/02/2019 18:29

DH’s Employer has allocated annual leave for the whole year. No one is happy about it, everyone has spoken up about it but apparently there is nothing they can do!
Is there anything we can do?

OP posts:
HavelockVetinari · 07/02/2019 18:47

My sister's an NHS doctor and that's totally normal everywhere she's worked. She's even seen people come into work on their wedding days before the ceremony because they couldn't get the whole day off or swap.

HavelockVetinari · 07/02/2019 18:47

P.S. it's shit though!

ChrisPrattsFace · 07/02/2019 18:47

I didn’t know you could do this! 😦

WhatToDoAboutWailmerGoneRogue · 07/02/2019 18:49

Yes, they absolutely can. We only do it where I work if someone is repeatedly asked to choose their holiday and doesn’t.

Janethevirgo · 07/02/2019 18:49

Is this a new job? Was he informed beforehand or is this something they are trying to introduce

HaudYerWheeshtYaWeeBellend · 07/02/2019 18:50

Yes they can OP, however expect the work force to suddenly have a higher than expected sick leave for “a few weeks” signed off by stress and anxiety.

PlainSpeakingStraightTalking · 07/02/2019 18:54

expect the work force to suddenly have a higher than expected sick leave for “a few weeks” signed off by stress and anxiety.

That may only happen if there is paid sick leave, like it or not, attendance is higher where sick leave is unpaid.

marymarkle · 07/02/2019 18:58

Yes because people go into work when they should not. I know, I have done it.

elfycat · 07/02/2019 19:05

Youmadorwhat Dh has the same pattern, 3 on 3 off. I can work out what he'll be doing for Xmas in 3 years time (unless he gets switched to the 'other' shift).

If he works extra days (has some training in 'our' 3 weeks) he can either have it paid or take time off, but he's limited to what days he can have off and it really had to be negotiated as someone has to cover his job role.

PooleySpooley · 07/02/2019 19:07

Although my OH is in the forces so we couldn’t even guarantee he would get our wedding day off Grin

Missingstreetlife · 07/02/2019 19:08

How do parents cover holidays? In my workplace they really tried to accommodate that by having cover from non parents and making sure if you had Xmas you didn't get Easter or next Xmas etc. People also swapped. My relative works alternate Saturdays and it's hard to swap because no one wants to do two in a row.

FeedMeBooks · 07/02/2019 19:11

DH used to work a shift rota that was a moveable feast of nights and days for six weeks then ten days off. Those ten day periods were his annual leave. Great that you knew over a year in advance when your holidays were if child-free. Nightmare of juggling if have children and both parents work. Probably got one xmas in three off.

Nicknacky · 07/02/2019 19:11

Missing I use a childminder for school holidays.

Daisydrum · 07/02/2019 19:14

Thank you everyone. With regards to teachers, it is known going into the role what the holiday is. At DH work previously there was a choice, this year it is now all allocated. Time off in school holidays would be ideal so he could spend it with the DC’s rather than being allocated weeks in term time.

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notacooldad · 07/02/2019 19:16

Apart from teachers I didn't realise companies coukd do this.

The more I see of other work places the more thankful I've worked for a local authority for the last 30 odd years!! Shock

PyongyangKipperbang · 07/02/2019 19:17

If this is somewhere he has been for a while and they have just started allocating, then there could be a "custom and practice" argument.

Worth speaking to ACAS to confirm his legal position as it may not be as simple as "yes, its legal".

greendale17 · 07/02/2019 19:18

I couldn’t work for a company like that.

PyongyangKipperbang · 07/02/2019 19:18

www.peninsulagrouplimited.com/guides/custom-and-practice/

FrancisCrawford · 07/02/2019 19:19

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EhlanaOfElenia · 07/02/2019 19:20

It's pretty shit, and pretty stupid. The most valuable staff will leave and take jobs elsewhere with more family friendly rules. A company that does it is going to face some serious problems in the very near future.

Comefromaway · 07/02/2019 19:22

It’s legal and where I work some holidays are allocated during shutdown periods but we’d have no staff if there was no flexibility.

I used to work for a kids out of school activity provider and holiday could only be taken out of term time.

PlainSpeakingStraightTalking · 07/02/2019 19:25

The most valuable staff will leave and take jobs elsewhere with more family friendly rules. A company that does it is going to face some serious problems in the very near future.

That depends on many factors -

is the company in an unemployment black spot?
is it the large local employer?
does the remuneration package more than compensate for inconvenience?
Are the staff low attainment and not likely to get employment elsewhere?
is it actually a convenient employer for most people ?

Grace212 · 07/02/2019 19:29

OP "At DH work previously there was a choice, this year it is now all allocated"

that's mad. What reason have they given?

ResistanceIsNecessary · 07/02/2019 19:34

Was normal at Royal Mail. You could swap - and if you asked far enough in advance for a really important occasion (e.g. wedding) then managers would normally try and allocate the time you wanted. But the usual process was that it was allocated and if you didn't like what you had, then you needed to get someone to cover you.

bluebeck · 07/02/2019 19:38

Completely legal. Common in many sectors, including areas like public transport.

Suggest he swaps if he doesn't like what he has been given.