"Broadsheet newspapers aren't arbiters of what is grammatical" I quite agree. I've seen some appalling use of grammar and even clear spelling mistakes, especially with homonyms.
I've a FB friend who regularly posts spag errors he's spotted in supposedly professional publications.
"No newspaper would knowingly publish with blatant spelling, grammar or punctuation errors though. Ever." Then how is my friend able to post examples I'd say at least 2-3 times a week? Some weeks most days!
"I think SPaG is important and some of the things I read on here are shocking. I know it's only a forum and may be relaxed but sometimes, to me, it hinders comprehension. I know there are people for whom it's difficult but when I read something like:Myself and DH should of went to the hospital but we was busy borrowing stuff to our friends, ect I just give up and exit the thread. Maybe that was an extreme example but it's not far off what I've read on here" I think silverysurfer would agree that we rarely agree! 😂
On this I agree it's PAINFUL reading some posts.
I'm also increasingly seeing he's or even worse hes (which isn't even a sodding word!) instead of "his" it's incredibly jarring.
Also "generally" when I think they mean "genuinely" but it's not always easy to tell - and if you ask you get flamed for being picky!
"You can’t enter a music competition without learning to play the instrument properly.
This is not a comparable analogy." Of course it is!
I'd argue a child with poor arithmetic skills wouldn't do well in a maths competition either.
"I don't understand why people suggest that creative writing isn't possible if good spelling and grammar are also required." Neither do I. Most enthusiastic readers & writers I know also have a good grasp of spag.
"that I would value a story with some easily-ignored errors more than something written to fit precise grammar rules while losing any sense of voice or individuality." Being good at spag doesn't necessarily mean that person will be a poor unimaginative storyteller.