Just this. I'm prepared to be flamed for being unreasonable.
I feel like in recent years DH's drinking has increased and not sure whether it's "normal" - just know it bothers me.
We both work full time and have a toddler DS.
If there is beer in the house, he will finish it all drink it, so we seldom stock any beer at home.
If there is a bottle of wine in the house he will usually want to have some wine on any given evening when we're at home - and if we decide to open it, he will inevitably end up drinking most if not all of it within the same day/evening as I tend to have only one or two glasses. When I point out to him that he's had this amount to drink, he gets annoyed or defensive.
When we are out, he will have at least a couple of beers with a meal if it's a restaurant. This is whether it's lunch or dinner, and even if DS is with us.
It's the weekday evening drinking at home that bothers me. He is a bit of a lightweight in that he is noticeably 'looser' after he's had 2 or 3 beers.
In the last year or so there have been maybe 2-3 times when he's come home from a (rare) night out and been slurring/stumbling/sick. It's 2-3 times too many for me, to be honest.
So as not to drip feed - I grew up in a household where my mum disapproved of my dad drinking (he did a lot of business entertaining). I fear I'm becoming my mum?
Would appreciate some independent perspective on this.