He's still off work after Christmas. He hasn't once got up with our 21mo in the morning to let me lay in
I'm 36+5 pregnant and struggle to sleep during the night as it is. I've tried to wake him and tell him to get up- he plays deaf. DS has taken to getting up way earlier lately. I can't nap during the day, I look after my 3 year old sister. Also, I've a low blood count so I feel weak and all fainty most mornings.
I've had a sit down talk with him that I need rest, he seemed to understand. He offers sometimes to get up... but it's after I've been up with DS for over an hour already and it's an after thought.
I don't think IABU, maybe a little selfish, but not U?