For example, my brother and his gf gave me my birthday present a month late. I always spend a fair bit on them and their kids, and I put a lot of thought in to it too. I wouldn’t get them something they wouldn’t like or use. This gift they gave me was in a gift bag addressed to the girlfriend. The box had tape and remnants of ripped Christmas paper on it, so it screams “regift” immediately. And the gift in the box is a mini bottle of white wine and some hazelnut truffles. I’m teetotal and allergic to nuts. Both of them know this. They aren’t hard up for money either, but they have a pretty solid weed habit. In the bottom of this gift bag was a crumpled receipt for some supermarket veg and a few bits of loose change. AIBU to decide that I’m going to stop putting all the effort and money into their gifts?? I’ll still buy decent stuff for their kids but this felt so thoughtless. And they’ve asked if I liked the gift.... what am I meant to say? Thanks for the deadly regift??