Has anyone ever got pregnant at 'not the right time'?

[erja]

Posting here for traffic (and because I couldn't think what other topic to post in to get answers!)
AIBU to ask...

Has anyone ever TTC or had an unplanned pregnancy where the timing 'wasn't right' I.e financially, job wise, living situation and have everything work out for you and your family?

Alternatively, has anyone gone through with a pregnancy when the timing 'wasn't right' and massively struggled?

Hope someone doesn't mind sharing some light on this for me! Not sure if it's a bit personal.

@whatsthepointthen I'm really sorry about your situation how old is your youngest?

Shes 20 months now and is an extremely difficult baby, Ex has stayed true to his word and has had no contact. All I can hope is that it will get easier when she gets older but I cant say I dont wonder if I made the right decision.

Absolutely! DP had just been diagnosed as terminal, I had no savings, we didn't live together (had been together for a few years though), I'd just been offered a very physical job.
Didn't take the job, DP got a life saving transplant, still don't live together but that'll likely change soon. DS is 10mos, haven't regretted having him once, not even for a second.