Married couple. Person A spills their just-off-the-hob soup on their hands and feet and also on the floor, counter and cupboard fronts. It was clumsy but accidental. They immediately run their hand under cold water from a fair while, then clean up the mess so the children don’t tread on it/ no-one slips before sitting down to eat.
Person B - who at the time of the spill had put butter in a pan on the hob but had not started cooking anything else, cracks and egg and fries it, puts it on their plate and sits down to eat their lunch.
Person A is sad because person B didn’t express any concern at all, nor helped to clear up the soup pouring down the cupboards onto the floor (there was a lot).
Person B is annoyed because person A was clumsy and wanted to get on with their lunch.
For clarity, the differing lunch menus were a choice and person B decided to have an egg at the last minute, so there is no undercurrent about not cooking lunch for one another. Person A is not hamming it up and is putting a burn cream on their hand.