Sorry but I know a fair few girls who have hooked up with guys (when both equally intoxicated) and woken up to realise it was a huge mistake and they were ‘probably raped’
I’ve actually had this conversation with a girl:
Her- I think he raped me
Me- oh god, what happened, are you ok?
Her- we were really drunk and had sex but I didn’t really want to
Me- and he kept going? You should report it!
Her- well, I didn’t tell him to stop so idk
Me- ok- 🤔 why?
Her- well I was drunk so I wanted to hook up at the time so I said yes but I would never have done it if I wasn’t wasted and I was drunk so couldn’t really ‘give consent’ even if I did say I wanted it at the time!
Me- Wait, was he sober?
Her- 😂 nooo he was as bad as me- his willy almost wouldn’t work! 😔 I wish it hadn’t now!
Me- so you just expected him to more sensible drunk than you were and understand, despite being equally wasted, that when you said yes- you meant no? 🤔
Her- .....yes? 😣
Teaching young girls that everything that happens to them is someone else’s fault IS NOT a good idea! You should not be so intoxicated you can’t make decisions you won’t bitterly regret the next day!
(Obviously this is a small sample of situations - but whilst as uni especially I heard it sooooo many times)