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AIBU?

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Love Actually AIBU

109 replies

Thisnamechanger · 05/01/2019 23:07

I'm stuck in bed with flu so have been Netflix binging. Got me thinking how many excellent AIBUs the story has in it.

AIBU to really fancy my married boss?
AIBU to think lobster in the Xmas play is PC gone mad?
AIBU to think airport security has got really slack?

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FenellasRedVelvetDress · 06/01/2019 00:23

Ohhhh.....I had never seen those deleted scenes.
I’m having a little cry now.
I love Frances dela Tour. And Anne Reid. Loved her in Dinnerladies.

Anyway, AIBU to think that a child couldn’t learn to play the drums AND get cast as the drummer in the Christmas Eve nativity in about three Weeks? ( its always annoyed me. Why do bloody script writers think that all of the viewers are stupid???)
And AIBU to think that the single PM wouldn’t have an engagement on Christmas Eve?
AND AIBU to think that the PM does not come through the regular ‘arrivals’ gate/doors at the airport?
And AIBU to still get confused about HOW and WHEN the divine ( and much missed beloved) Alan Rickman actually paid for and collected ‘the necklace’?.

So many holes in the film. Yet I still bloody watch it AND cry every sodding year!

iklboo · 06/01/2019 00:25

And AIBU to still get confused about HOW and WHEN the divine ( and much missed beloved) Alan Rickman actually paid for and collected ‘the necklace’?.

That's the scene with Rowan Atkinson where he's trying to hurry up but Rowan is taking his sweet Jesus of a time wrapping it - hopefully so that Emma Thompson catches up with him.

PyongyangKipperbang · 06/01/2019 00:31

Re the necklace, he nips back when he is "in a meeting and might be a bit late love" and, crucially, says "no thanks" when asked if he wants it gift wrapped.

Oh and while I am thinking about it, AIBU to shudder every time I hear Rowan Atkinson say "Would you like it gift WRAPPED?" with the stress on wrapped instead of gift?

Franheaton · 06/01/2019 00:32

He doesn't buy it at that point though because Thompson turns up so he abandons it. I reckon he stole it and fled the country to avoid detection.

Franheaton · 06/01/2019 00:33

X post forgot he went back. Oh well.

SpotlessMind · 06/01/2019 00:42

AIBU to think that that’s really not an accurate representation of what it’s like to be a female working in porn.

Sarahandduck18 · 06/01/2019 00:44

AIBU to not pay the wedding videographer who didn’t shoot any film of DH?

Franheaton · 06/01/2019 00:48

It's not porn though is it? As I understood it they're actors who've got work as body doubles.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 06/01/2019 00:58

I decided to fly to the USA at a few moment's notice but I didn't see the need to give a second thought to where I might stay once I got there.

I feel especially foolish about this considering that the internet is still in its relative infancy and there aren't all of the handy impulsive travel and accommodation booking websites advertised by sassy young Australian women that I imagine there will be in 10-15 years' time.

Anyway, as luck would have it, I was invited by four very friendly girls whom I met by chance at a diner to go back and stay with them at their house. Very kind of them - all fine so far.

Now, this is where it starts to get weird. They started to tell me how poor they were and that they could only afford one bed (in a suspiciously large-looking house) to share between them. I get that: beds are expensive. However, their plight was far worse than I could have imagined as they tearfully informed me that they couldn't afford pyjamas and, therefore, had to sleep naked.

I was so gagging for the opportunity to back with them immediately and give their finances a really good seeing-to.

Sadly, it was pearls before swine and all they wanted to do, rather than sensibly going through spreadsheets and pie-charts with me - which clearly demonstrated the medium-term benefits of not going to the diner for a number of weeks and instead saving the money they would have spent on drinks until they could afford to buy eight pairs of pyjamas (one each to wear, one each in the wash) from the thrift store; and thus turn the heating down by several degrees and reap the savings in no time, enough to buy at least a futon each, if not a full bedstead - was to fool around and, to be blunt, do rather inadvisable and inappropriate things with a strange man from abroad whom they've only just met I didn't say no, though.

So to summarise, AIBU to think that American schools should spend much more time on lessons about personal fiduciary conduct and the financial benefits of delaying gratification for the greater longer-term gains and much less time giving them ideas about what I'm going to call very different kinds of instant gratification?

BlancheM · 06/01/2019 01:16

AIBU to be in two places at once? I want to go to a wedding reception my doofus friend is handing out canapés at, but I'm also needed at work filming naked body doubles.

BlancheM · 06/01/2019 01:25

AIBU to propose marriage to a relative stranger at her crowded workplace by shouting up at her rather than pulling her to one side?
Don't know if it's relevant but to avoid accusations of drip-feeding, the object of my affections lives in a remote Portuguese village located in the south of France.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 06/01/2019 01:27

I’ve always wondered about that too BlancheM

Franheaton · 06/01/2019 01:33

Portugal and France are the same place, thanks to the Euro-clowns in Brussels and their PC driven war on maps.

MLMsuperfan · 06/01/2019 01:39

My work colleague keeps making comments about my weight and has suggested that we watch pornography together.

tynext · 06/01/2019 01:43

AIBU to wonder why everyone in my life makes comments/jokes about how fat I am when I’m a size 10/12

tynext · 06/01/2019 01:45

Also what exactly was the Portuguese woman doing at the French house? Colin Firth goes on holiday to a cottage and she’s some sort of servant provided for him? Confused is that a thing?

Franheaton · 06/01/2019 01:50

Tsk, everyone in PortuFrance has a full time maid to cope with the sheer amount of housekeeping necessitated by a person sitting at a typewriter in a one bedroom house.

MixedMaritalArts · 06/01/2019 02:07

AIBU to think that eight is not a lot of legs. Signed Colin the Caterpillar x

LittlePaintBox · 06/01/2019 02:34

AIBU to type only one copy only of my novel and not to weight any of the finished pages down, even though typing outdoor where it can sometimes be breezy?

AIBU to expect to learn enough Portuguese to get by at a crowded TEFL college in a couple of days before Christmas?

AIBU giving everyone garlic for Christmas? Is this why my niece hates me?

HeartyLaugh · 06/01/2019 02:42

AIBU to arrive at my relatives house laiden down with bags. Say hello and leave immediately with all the bags without any explanation

CaptainCabinets · 06/01/2019 02:54

AIBU to not make copies?

Thisnamechanger · 06/01/2019 08:51

OMG thank you you've cheered me up SO much!

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Thisnamechanger · 06/01/2019 08:52

AIBU to book a transatlantic flight approximately 15 minutes after my daughrer’s school Christmas concert finishes?

😂

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Thisnamechanger · 06/01/2019 08:52

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRolls I think you need to go into comedy 😂😂😂 I say that as someone who work is comedy!

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noego · 06/01/2019 09:19

Just to add another couple

To think that a "I know a short cut to the airport" to head them off.........
Turns out the family flying to New York have been through, check in, security, and boarding call when they arrive.

Some short cut :)

To think that the police should have been nicked for overcrowding a police car.

To think that the AP off the hubby lives next door to the PMs GF.