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Did I cheat on him?

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lexidexi · 05/01/2019 13:07

Been having problems in my relationship for a while. DP moved out temporarily just after Christmas, but we are just getting some space from each other and we were then going to sort through stuff.
I never go out but went out on New Years and had a few too many and went a bit overboard. Me and my friend linked up with a group of guys and kind of stuck with them. I was flirty with one of the guys and I knew at the time it was wrong. DP has now seen photos/videos of me having a piggyback by this guy, standing at the bar with his arms draped round me, him stroking my hair etc. Affectionate but didn't kiss him or anything and he knew I had a partner. It was over the line but DP has gone crazy and said I cheated and he doesn't know if he can forgive me which I don't necessarily agree with? Who's being unreasonable?

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PoesyCherish · 06/01/2019 00:10

Hugely inappropriate and I'd be gutted if my DP did this. It doesn't sound like it's a good relationship for you or him though? Sounds like you'd both be better off calling it time Flowers

BoneyBackJefferson · 06/01/2019 00:18

Your "snappy"
He is "controlling"
You are "minimising"
He is "maximising"
You "wouldn't like it if you saw pictures of him in the same situation"

What exactly is either of you getting out of this?

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