I have cooked and cleaned over Christmas, as usual. Dh worked most days. For NYE we agreed on a repeat Christmas dinner (Turkey, roasties, etc). So he came home at 5, i had the house tidied, dc and dog walked, fire lit and dinner on. He came in and watched tv. I set the table and got drinks and everything ready. Called everyone to table and dh looked at the knife i was using to cut the turkey. It was a too-short one he had sharpened months ago-perfectly adequate. I had asked him several times to sharpen the others (yes, i should be able to do this myself but my way doesnt work as well and he did a good job with the first). Everyone was at table, drinks poured, roasties and veg and warmed plates in situ. Turkey was mostly carved and just needed to be brought to the table and dispensed and dh said: I'll go out (to his workshop) And sharpen these now. I said please don't, dinner is ready. He said ffs it'll only take 5 minutes. I said: if you go out that door I will lock it and you can sit out there while we eat our dinner. He came in and with lots of fuck you's sat and ate.
He ruined new years eve dinner. He thinks I did by "fussing". Who is being more unreasonable (as both of us probably are a bit).