Is this rude?!?!?

[sayitisntsojo]

I made arrangements to see a friend today. She said she would be here after lunch. She isn't here and it is nearly 5!!

I thought rue until you said they dropped off a child and left. Now I'm

You need to dump these people. They aren't your friends.

'an hour or so'..... they'll be knocking at 00.15 pissed.

I’d be calling her now saying to come pick him up cos she won’t be answering her phone later.

She’s no friend.

Very rude!

Dump these people as friends OP

Piss-takers.

They sound awful.

Have they collected the child or do you have an overnight guest?

Not collected yet but we are cooking tea so hope they come soon

Have you called her?

Give them a poke, ask them when they're collecting their kid.

Do you know where they have gone.If you do just drop the child there.

I have a friend like this. When arranging now, I always make up an end time too as I have to be somewhere else by X time - it chivvys them on, but it’s still annoying I have to do it. Some people either think their own time is more valuable or are generally so laid back they wouldn’t care if someone did this to them. I am neither of those people! And time when you have children is a precious commodity that should not be wasted or spent with bored children!!

Child has been picked up. I think @TrainsandDiggers is right, they are just not as bothered by timings as I am so no malice was meant by it.