I posted about this a while ago but NC because other posts may out me. My OH and I used to be in an open relationship, but due to boundaries being broken I said enough is enough and said i wasn't comfortable with it anymore. He said he was okay with this but still wanted to see a girl he had planned to meet, but just as a friend. They had dinner and watched a movie. Since then they've been in daily contact which makes me quite uncomfortable, but not enough to say anything. But then today he says he's going out all day Sunday to her house to 'play games'. I said im not comfortable with that. He said I was being childish but I told him if he'd rather spend his time with this girl, than me and his daughter then I won't be here when he gets back. He called me manipulative and toxic. He says I'm not OK with him having friends and what do I want him to do, not talk to anybody? I told him that im perfectly happy for him to have friends. What I'm not okay with is him spending his only time off with a 'friend that he had feelings for, has seen naked and in sexual situations, and spending the day alone in her home. Aibu? Or am I in the wrong? Do I just forget it and tell him to go?